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Sub Octopi was given a primpt to think of 4 things that remind him of Mistress M: object, building, word, and art. This is what he chose.

I’m sharing my current playlist below for those seeking inspiration—or to help me fill in the gaps. What am I missing? 

I recently took on a new slave, dubbed Marbles for reasons that will soon became apparent. His early days under my command were marked not by physical presence but by virtual interactions, where commands and consequences were exchanged via screens and typed commands.

Let’s get something straight— It's not just about punching nuts.  Cock and ball torture isn’t about reckless chaos or just landing a blow...

Being a Domme comes with costs. And if you’re going to kneel at my feet, I expect you to help support the throne.

In the world of dominance and submission, trust is everything. Without it, the dynamic crumbles into nothing more than a hollow interaction. As your Mistress, I do not demand blind trust—I earn it.

In-person sessions are my favorite indulgence—but now and then, I open the door to my online dungeon. Virtual service isn't free, and it isn’t casual. But if you’re respectful, eager, and ready to serve… you might catch me at just the right moment.

Easy template and apology outline for Submissives to use:

I know you’re here because you want to please me, and I’ve made it easy for you. This isn’t just a wishlist—it’s a test. Gifts are a way for you to show me you’ve paid attention, that you understand what I deserve. While I don’t expect tributes, when you mess up or just feel the need to show your appreciation, I expect you to follow this list as a guide.

My collaring ceremonies are cheeky, intimate, and deeply personal—think less “ritual contract,” more “heavy friendship bracelet that locks.” It’s not about formality—it’s about connection, commitment, and a little fun along the way.

Keeping a submissive safe is a huge responsibility and it is something I take very seriously. After all, their life and well-being is literally in My hands. I am impressed when a submissive takes responsibility for their health and safety and communicates their concerns well. To make this conversation a bit easier, I’ve decided to list all the things I can think of that I do to keep Myself and My submissives safe.

I will be happy to pick one out, even if you don't plan on meeting me. I consider myself pretty good at it. Open to helping those in need, in exchange for tribute, and within the shipping limits of the US.

I'm not reviewing applications at the moment—but you can still book a paid session or apply to be considered when spots open. I don’t take just anyone—I'm looking for subs who offer more than just tribute. If you think your service, kink, or oral skills could earn you a place, apply here.

He wakes me up with the most devoted foot massage, steamy coffee already set on my bedside table – this silent servant begins my day with the greatest gentleness. Taking the time to follow my body language, he stays kneeling by my bedside, focused and ready for my subtle queues to begin the day.

Send an introduction message. It should be similar to this:  Mistress M, I’m John, I saw your grindr/tiktok/instagram. I’m 31, available January 4th-6th 1-11 pm and I’m looking to spend x hours in your presence. (If the WHEN and how long isn’t included in your first 3 sentences, go back and tweak your writing order, it’s the first thing I scan for)

Nervous? Good. That means you care. But don’t overthink it—Mistress M isn’t here to humiliate your humanity. She’s here to tease, play, and push you while keeping you safe, clean, and focused. Whether you’re a seasoned sub or still discovering what turns you on, this post is your guide to showing up ready, honest, and hungry to serve.