Mistress M's Blog - Must Reads

Being a Domme comes with costs. And if you’re going to kneel at my feet, I expect you to help support the throne.

Keeping a submissive safe is a huge responsibility and it is something I take very seriously. After all, their life and well-being is literally in My hands. I am impressed when a submissive takes responsibility for their health and safety and communicates their concerns well. To make this conversation a bit easier, I’ve decided to list all the things I can think of that I do to keep Myself and My submissives safe.

Send an introduction message. It should be similar to this:  Mistress M, I’m John, I saw your grindr/tiktok/instagram. I’m 31, available January 4th-6th 1-11 pm and I’m looking to spend x hours in your presence. (If the WHEN and how long isn’t included in your first 3 sentences, go back and tweak your writing order, it’s the first thing I scan for)

Nervous? Good. That means you care. But don’t overthink it—Mistress M isn’t here to humiliate your humanity. She’s here to tease, play, and push you while keeping you safe, clean, and focused. Whether you’re a seasoned sub or still discovering what turns you on, this post is your guide to showing up ready, honest, and hungry to serve.