How to Meet Me

1. Send an introduction message. It should be similar to this: 

Mistress M,

I’m John, I saw your grindr/tiktok/instagram.

I’m 31, available January 4th-6th 1-11 pm and I’m looking to spend x hours in your presence.

(If the WHEN and how long isn’t included in your first 3 sentences, go back and tweak your writing order, it’s the first thing I scan for)

I’m interested in…. (keep this to one paragraph and focused on your kinks for the most part, I will likely ask for clarification and expansion once accepted)

Relevant info here: I’m recovering from surgery, I’m still sorting out flight schedules – any absolutely vital variables here. (Your level of fitness, perceived attractiveness, orientation or ethnicity isn’t relevant – leave it out)

All Yours, Mistress,

John

2. For first time sessions, I may require a hotel meeting rather than my dungeon. I do not want you to know where I spend my time outside of kink until I know you’re mentally straight. As such, I also will not host a session at your place. 

3. Make sure you have read my other blog posts and are comfortable with meeting. If you aren’t yet comfortable, we can chat on the phone or over Zoom to make you more comfortable with me. 

4. My availability is mostly daily between 3-10pm and sessions are typically done for 3-6 hours. Session time is always flexible.

I will require a deposit. This is not something I don't want to do, but unfortunately clients do flake out and waste my time. Do not do this, you will regret it, and I won’t forgive you.