The Collaring Ceremony: How I Do It

When it comes to collaring ceremonies in the BDSM realm, I make it fun and cutesie. Each ceremony I conduct is as unique as the subs I work with—each tailored like a bespoke suit, only a bit less cloth involved and more rope. I do not do any contracts, but could be into that if that is what the sub wanted to further commit themselves. I feel like my process is deeper anyway.

Setting the Scene

The start is pretty standard (if anything in kink can be called standard), beginning much like any regular session to ease us into the right headspace. But then comes the twist—the moment I present the collar. This isn't just any of jewelry; it's more like the ultimate friendship bracelet, only much heavier, and... it locks.

Picking the Perfect Collar

Choosing the right collar is crucial. For my next ceremony, I've picked out a sleek silver chain for my "Bagel Bite," yes, that’s his slave name. But I also call him Baygo. This chain is simple yet significant, equipped with a lock to symbolize the strong bond we've developed. After all, if you're going to wear a piece of metal around your neck at my behest, it better be something you're into, right?

The Exchange

After the collaring, we have a little reciprocity moment where the sub gifts me a ring. This isn’t just any ring—it’s specifically chosen by me but given by them. This ring, simple and with a hollow circle in it echoes back to his nickname "Bagel," which, in case you haven't caught on, represents him being my literal hole. 

The Journey to the Collar

Getting to this point isn’t a sprint; it’s more like a marathon. It’s about building trust, depth, and connection over months or even years. By the time we get to the ceremony, it’s clear this isn't just a whimsical decision.

Conclusion

So, there you have it—the inside scoop on how I do collaring ceremonies since so many have asked about it. They're personal, they're serious, and they're a bit cheeky. Each ceremony is a reflection of a unique journey and a deep commitment.

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